There has been a war going on between me and my feelings for some time. For as long as I can remember I have always been a person who feels. Whether it’s balling my eyes out at Titanic when we already know the ending or being hard on myself for something that I messed up, I feel. I’m feeling all the time.
We all know that communication is essential to a relationship that we want to flourish. But as much as we know that, why is it that so many of us still suck at it? The reality is, many of us, when we are in relationships feel like our counterparts should just know. But how in the world can someone know what you are thinking or how you are feeling if they are not you? It sounds ridiculous when you read it, I know. But the fact remains that whether we recognize it or not, this is how many of us operate in our relationships.