Dogs and The Bigger Life Lessons

Dogs and The Bigger Life Lessons

The first time we took our new dog to the vet, I was an emotional train wreck. She started rattling off shots that I thought he already had at the shelter, the dog was wild while my husband tried to calm him down, and my bill was about $140 over the $50 I anticipated. “What the hell had I done?” was resounding loudly in my head as I literally broke into tears in between the Vet going in and out of the room.

Productivity and Value

Productivity and Value

Last year, I found the productivity matrix. I was working the job, then working after the job and almost forgot about having a life, a husband, and anything else in between. Everyone online had been telling me that the only reason I wasn’t where I wanted to be was because of me and I simply couldn’t let that be the case.

Peace in the Pivot

Peace in the Pivot

I was falling apart at the end of last year. I was busy at my work hustle, behind on my full-time dream, and trying to buy a house. There was a lot going on, to say the least. So, coming into the New Year, I felt completely drained and needed to make my sanity the first priority. In that, I decided that I needed to do less, in a more impactful way.

My Struggle With Planners

My Struggle With Planners

Somehow, I only remember to order a planner on the first day of the New Year. But let me explain. As the year winds down, I know that I need a planner. I start to think about planners and even shop around for them. I start to think of features that I would want to have included in my planner and then I mull over whether I should use the same planner or switch.

As The Year Comes to a Close

As The Year Comes to a Close

I haven’t written “end of the year” posts much. But I felt inclined this year because well, 2017 has been a tough one. Not just tough, as there have been many great triumphs as well, but the emotional and sometimes even physical burdens we’ve endured collectively has been a lot. And the best way I have always found to cope is through community and sharing. 
I’ll start with some of the amazing things that happened. 

In Bloom - Finding My Path

In Bloom - Finding My Path

I was one of those people where I had my whole life planned out before high school. I knew I was going to Duke, I was going to be married by 26 and thought I knew who I was going to marry and what I was going to do for the rest of my life. I didn’t know that life was about to happen and change my plans. I didn’t know how to adapt to the change of not being in my dream career path.I was feeling pretty lost and had no idea where to go next. I felt like I settled for the things I was good at and kept thinking about my dream. I kept thinking about what another path I was supposed to take and how I was going to find it. 

In Bloom - Finding Treasures in the Darkness (Book Introduction)

In Bloom - Finding Treasures in the Darkness (Book Introduction)

I have been living a lie.  Lately, the person I portray to be is not who I really am.  Every morning I wake up and I squeeze my new form into an outfit that is four years too old.  But yet I wear it anyway because it would take too much energy to explain the changes.  It has been said that life changes you.  But what they didn’t tell me is that you do not realize how much you have changed until you wake up one day with the task of having to introduce the new you to the world.  It is true life does change you.  It should change you.  But what is written in the fine print is that with life comes grief and grief transforms you in ways you would never expect.